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Monthly Spotlight: Pregnancy & Infant Loss

Pregnancy & Infant Loss Day

  • Miscarriage is the loss of pregnancy in the womb before 20 weeks of pregnancy (in some parts it is before 28 weeks)
    • Some women have a miscarriage before they even know they are pregnant
    • After 20 weeks it is considered a stillbirth
  • We don't know all the causes of miscarriages
    • But chromosome problems are often to blame
  • It can take one's body a few weeks to a month to recover from a miscarriage
    • It may take longer to recover emotionally
  • 10 to 20 in 100 pregnancies result in a miscarriage
    • 8 of 10 happen in the first trimester
    • 1 in 5 in the second trimester 
  • About 1 in 100 people have repeat miscarriages 
    • The risk of a second miscarriage is 20%
  • Up to 7 in 10 (70 percent) of all miscarriages are caused when an embryo (fertilized egg) gets the wrong number of chromosomes.
  • Every year, nearly 2 million babies are stillborn
    • Many of which could've been prevented
  • The rate of death at birth/infant increased 3% from 2021 to 2022
    • 5.60 infant deaths to 1,000 live births
    • Mortality rates increased in male births from 5.83 to 6.06 out of 1,000 births
  • From 2021 to 2022 the mortality rate significantly decreased in one state (Nevada)
    • It increased in 4 states (Georgia, Iowa, Missouri, and Texas)
  • In 2022, the number of infant deaths was about 20,553
    • Per every 100,000 live births: 560.4
  • Leading causes of death: 
    • Congenital malformations, deformations, and chromosomal abnormalities
    • Disorders related to short gestation and low birthweight: not elsewhere classified
    • Sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS)
  • Sudden Unexpected Infant Death (SUID) is a term used to describe the sudden and unexpected death of a baby less than 1 year old in which the cause was not obvious before investigation.
    • These deaths often happen during sleep or in the baby’s sleep area.
  • There are about 3,400 SUID in the US each year
  • The three most common types of SUID are:
    • Sudden Infant Death Syndrom (SIDS)
    • Unknown cause
    • Accidental suffocation and strangulation in bed
  • In 2020, there were about 1,389 deaths due to SIDS, about 1,062 deaths due to unknown causes, and about 905 deaths due to accidental suffocation
  • The three states with the highest rates of SUID from 2016-2020 are Arkansas, Alabama, and Mississippi

 Information provided by the National Center for Health Statistics, the CDC, NVSS Vital Statistics Rapid Release, and the March of Dimes

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Additional Websites:

March of Dimes

The CDC

The National Institute of Child Health and Human Development

 

      

      

      

What happens to the body during and after a miscarriage:

  • Bleeding from the vagina with or without pain, including light bleeding called spotting.
  • Pain or cramping in the pelvic area or lower back.
  • Fluid or tissue passing from the vagina.
  • Fast heartbeat.
  • Fever higher than 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit more than two times.
  • Flu-like symptoms
  • Chills.
  • A foul-smelling fluid called discharge
  • Dizziness from low blood pressure.
  • Skin rash
  • Tiredness or weakness due to low red blood cells, also called anemia.
  • diarrhea or pain when you open your bowels.
  • Vomiting
  • Emptiness
  • Anger and disbelief
  • Disappointment
  • Sadness and a sense of isolation.
  • Mood swings
  • Lack of ritual (ex. funerals)

 The information above is from the Mayo Clinic, Better Health Channel, Tommy's, and Pregnancy Birth & Baby


Effects of losing an infant:

  • Shock/disbelief
  • Feeling numb or empty
  • Guilt
  • Anger/ blame
  • Isolation
  • Family conflict
  • Behavioral changes/mood swings
  • Lack of acknowledgment of loss
  • Unsupported
  • Anxiety
  • Lack of understanding/ confusion
  • Self-blame
  • Distress
  • Dealing with an autopsy
  • Excessively vigilant or protective over other children
  • Not receiving the acknowledgment or support expected from family and friends
  • Change in appetite and sleep patterns
  • The loss of an identity (motherhood/fatherhood)
  • Social pressures of having to move on or try again
  • Stigmas
  • Not having it be socially acceptable to show the intensity of a parent's grief

 Information from Better Health Channel and the Policy Center for Maternal Mental Health